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For me, a pinky promise still stands; an assurance is a commitment! This is because I truly admit that sisterhood is a bond worth keeping. Reshaping our lives can be hard and sometimes we don't adjust warmly to the changes! Having a good support system to stand behind you is such a liberating feeling. Sisters are basically the best cheer squad you can ever ask for!
But why you should cherish your sisters more than anything? You can put your trust in the women you surround yourself with. Immersing yourself in a group of women who you can tell anything to will create a bond that is unbreakable. There may be things going on in your life that you may not want the world to know, but in sisterhood, secrets, and struggles are kept safe and in the comfort of those whom you trust.
A sister can be anyone, whether it is the coffee break group at the office, sisterhood at the club, the girls you meet in metro or a simple friends group; the women you surround yourself with influence and impact your life so much.
Edit women out who hold you down, are jealous of you or otherwise don't support your conscious growth because that’s not what we are about. True sisters don't judge you by your lifestyle—they do their best to be the perfect sisters no matter how busy or available you are. If these women don’t accept you as your authentic self they are not your clan. Sisterhood is not superficial, it’s not a gathering of women to gossip, to exchange platitudes, to make each other jealous. We have enough of that in the world already, don’t we? Stepping into the sister circle means that you’re willing to go deep, and to love fully, with all that you are, visible, vulnerable. It’s certainly a responsible choice that you have to make. Sisterhood is not something that comes to you, it’s something that you consciously establish.
Don't shy away or try to invalidate other women's compliments and praise of you. The more we exhibit positive examples of women encouraging women, the more we mend the severed thread that is sacred to the feminine. Our little sisters, nieces, daughters, need to learn from us for the benefit of their healthy growth.
And more importantly, yes, we have been hurt in the past. Yes, she said she would not tell anyone! Yes, we know you just met her, how can you open yourself up to a total stranger. We do not have to go through our trials and triumphs alone. We do not have to suffer in silence, We need each other! Forgive yourself and the other women if you have misunderstood or broken the trust in your past friendships. Open up and try again! You can be the woman and create the sisterhood that you long for.
