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Are you losing the vibes between you and your bae? It is imperative to follow a few rules in the best possible way. It is not tough to reach goals but the path should be smooth. To make it smooth, it is necessary to go by the rulebook. Let us explore a few of the rules:
Do more, expect less: Great Expectations can lead to disastrous results. It is advisable to do as much as possible for your partner. But don’t expect the same from him/her. Let them be like the way they are. But never compromise your own dignity and self-respect.
A hug is the best medicine: Include hugging in your daily routine. According to scientists, hugging is a feeling that secretes the love hormone Oxytocin and surprisingly reduces the stress hormone Cortisol.
Communicate: Try and keep all the communication doors open till you can. Without communicating with each other you cannot maintain the balance in your love life. Be honest and truthful. If you are not feeling the same way then feel free to come up and say so.
Criticize sans hurting: Always believe in constructive and positive criticism. While healthy arguments are required in a relationship, this does not authorize you to use slangs or abusive words, which can hurt your bae. Listen more than expressing your own views all the time. Try and help your partner about your intentions.
Personal Space: I know both of you love each other too much but providing space to each other is very important. It is not necessary to inform your partner what you are doing and why all the time. Mutual trust is essential in any relationship.
Quality time: Quantity is not important but quality is. It does not matter if you are not meeting your loved one for a month or so but after a month, even a single moment spent with your loved one should be special for the both of you. Celebrate your special days in a special way while enjoying the togetherness.
It is possible that these things sound clichéd but to be honest, relationships are next to newborn babies. It requires care, love, time and effort. This is when a relationship blooms to the fullest.
By: Sreya Basu
